Danielle Harel

Dr. Danielle Harel is the the co-creator of the Somatica® Method and the co-founder of the Somatica® Institute. She has a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality (DHS), a graduate degree in Clinical Social Work (MSW), and a Bachelors (BA) degree in Psychology and Educational Counseling.

As a somatic sexologist, professor, and author, Danielle has devoted the last 20 years to resolving her client’s sexual challenges, training sex & relationship coaches, and empowering people. Harnessing her extensive training in sexology, psychology, and body-based modalities like Hakomi, attachment theory, character theory, and neuro-patterning, she guides people in reaching their fullest personal, professional, and sexual potential.

In addition to being faculty at Esalen and teaching the Advanced Somatica Training and Mastery Classes, Danielle has most recently embraced the adventure of co-producing the TV series Here She Comes – an episodic based on the Somatica Method (currently in production).

Before that, she published original research on Orgasmic Birth, and co-authored 3 books with Celeste Hirschman: Cockfidence, Making Love Real, and Coming Together.

She has also written extensively on sex, relationships, and dating, and is frequently quoted as an expert resource in publications.

To everything she does, Danielle brings her unparalleled passion, depth, intuition, and magnetizing personality.

Articles

Couple on sofa, working on relationship repair

Relationships Are About Repair, Not Perfection

There's a simple fact of life: when you enter into an intimate relationship, you are guaranteed to experience some hurt. So the skill of...
Anorgasmia in Women

Anorgasmia in Women

Anorgasmia Definition Anorgasmia in women is a condition that prevents a woman consistently from having an orgasm. She can either have difficulty orgasming, or does...
How to keep the spark alive during a long distance relationship

How to Keep the Spark Alive During a Long-Distance Relationship

While many people are stuck living together 24/7, others are experiencing a forced separation. If you're in the latter situation, you've probably wondered: how...
sex with the lights on

Sex with the Lights On – or Off?

You've seen them. Those old television shows and movies where the first kiss happens, the lights go out - and we are supposed to...
Asexuality

Asexuality: How Do You Know If You’re Asexual?

Our culture often attributes desire as the main motivator for sex. But there are many different types of attraction that inspire someone towards lovemaking....
What is impact play

The Ultimate Guide to Impact Play

As you explore your kinky tendencies, your journey may lead you to the wonderful, healing world of impact play. Within this adrenaline-fueled playground await...