Claiming Your Sexual Sovereignty

Claiming Your Sexual Sovereignty

No one can own someone else’s sexuality. You, alone, have complete sovereignty over your’s, and we must always honor the sexual sovereignty of another…….regardless of whether we are in intimate relationship with that person. Just as kings and queens rule their domains we have jurisdiction over who we allow into our intimate world. Two or more people can make agreements around their sexual behavior, regardless of those commitments, no one own another’s sexuality. Honoring the sexual sovereignty of all, and particularly your lover, allow for the trust and safety required to go deep into relationship. Without that trust and safety, one or both parties to the relationship will hold back either physically and/or emotionally. With the respect, trust and safety in place, two and go very deeply together, touch places that allow us to open and grow in way unavailable to the soloist. This is why in Tantric Buddhism, consort practice is considered the most powerful and profound path to touch enlightenment. Artwork by Anna...

The Dance of Intimacy

The alpha and omega of sexual intimacy are both safety.     She needs to feel physically safe in order to open.   He needs to feel emotionally safe in order to be vulnerable.    Those two are the basic ingredients of intimacy. If you want to learn about who to create and deepening intimacy, which start with you, contact one of our coaches for a 20 minute free session at...

A very sad day

It was with sadness that I learned about the shootings and death of 50 or more innocent people in Orlando.    The fact that an LGBT social setting was the target of the attacks, makes this clearly a hate crime. Our sympathies are with the family and friends of those who where killed, hurt or otherwise impacted by this senseless...

Remembering our Veterans

Two of the most import things we can do this Memorial Day weekend is to take a moment remember the service of our fallen military members and to thank and to thank a veteran and their family.     The recent demands place on our military as been extraordinary.    Among our return veterans PTSD, depression , physical injury, and sexual dysfunction are common.    As a society are responsible to help our vets and their family regain wholeness. As a veteran myself, I hold a special place in my heart for both active duty military members and veterans. I served in the U.S. Marine Corps as a Reconnaissance Platoon Commander with the Third Marine Division. In addition to being a Marine, I had the honor of training along side Navy Seals, Airborne Soldiers and members of the USAF.  Through this background I have gained deep insight into the challenges of veterans as they relate to sexuality.  If you are a veteran, be sure to indicate that on your sign-up sheet and you will be moved to the ‘front of the line’ in signing up for our SexCoaching...
Did you get accurate and useful information about sex growing up?

Did you get accurate and useful information about sex growing up?

“Sex wasn’t God’s big mistake. Judging against sex was humanity’s big mistake. Pleasure is as divine as any cathedral, any temple.” ~Deepak Chopra   Growing up, most of us did not get accurate and useful information about sex from our however-well-meaning families, schools and friends. That was certainly the case for me growing up in the 1960’s and 70’s in St. Louis, Missouri.  The primary instruction I received was that sex is dangerous and should be saved for marriage.  However, in my teens I had so much sexual energy running that wanted to learn and experiment, but I did not know how. As a result I very conflicted as confused.  Can you identify with my early experience around sex?   Fortunately, as adults today, we can make new choices around our sexuality. At SexCoaching.com, we provide accurate and useful information everything from sexual anatomy to the most advanced techniques for maximizing your capacity to give and receive erotic pleasure. We have five coaches, each with different perspectives and backgrounds, so you can choose whoever is best for you.   For more information on our process for living you erotic potential, we invite you to visit our website.  As a way of saying thank you we are offering a complimentary 20 minute phone consultation for you to find out how SexCoaching.com can benefit you....