Celeste Hirschman

Celeste Hirschman is the is the co-creator of the Somatica® Method and the co-founder of the Somatica® Institute. She received an MA in Human Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University, and a BA in Women’s Students from UCSC.

In her teaching and coaching, Celeste routinely draws on her extensive training in attachment psychology, sociology, gender studies, and body-based modalities like Hakomi. She uses these embodied learning principles to help students and clients tap into their own somatic wisdom, deepen their experiences of pleasure, and realize their full personal and professional potential.

A prolific writer, Celeste researched and published a defining paper on adolescent sexuality development in 2006, during her tenure at SFSU’s Center for Research on Gender and Sexuality.

Since then, she has co-authored 3 books with Danielle Harel: Cockfidence, Making Love Real, and Coming Together. She writes frequently and is generally the first expert journalists turn to for quotes and information on sex, dating, and relationships.

No matter what she does – whether she is co-producing the sex-coaching-based TV series Here She Comes, or teaching at the legendary Esalen Institute – Celeste always brings her unconditional love, scintillating presence, erotic energy, and insight to every part of her work.

Articles

16 Date Conversation Starters To Spark Genuine Connection

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How to Hook Up For Casual Sex (Without Alienating Women)

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How To Make the Honeymoon Phase Last

Everyone knows about the honeymoon phase in relationships. It's the emotional and sexual intensity that happens right after meeting someone new. But what happens to...
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Sexually Inexperienced? Here’s How to Start Dating

How to start dating is a question for the ages. Dating is a unique experience, with paths diverging and converging in unexpected ways. For...
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Horny Before Your Period? Here’s Why

Why are women often so horny before their period? Often referred to as "premenstrual horniness," the phenomenon of libido fluctuations and sexual arousability around the...
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How To Discover What Turns You On

Embarking on a journey to discover what turns you on and ignites your passion can be both exhilarating and enlightening. Nearly everyone walks through...
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How To Compliment Someone – And How To Respond

No one’s ever really taught how to compliment someone. Equally, receiving compliments or flattering comments can be difficult for some people, so they don't...
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Sexual Contracts: 50 Shades of Grey & Beyond

Open, negotiated sexual contracts are not common in relationships. Most people have an unspoken agreement about their sexual engagements, but don't feel comfortable articulating...
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Why You Should Embrace Those Embarrassing Sex Moments

We have all experienced that awkward or embarrassing sex moment. You move to take your shirt or your pants off - and your body...
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Don’t Ignore This Intimacy Secret: The Relationship Contract

No two relationships are exactly alike. Yet we often make assumptions about how they are supposed to be. In recognizing that all relationships are...
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5 Essential Ways To Celebrate Self Pleasure

In case you didn’t know, there is something we should all be celebrating as soon as possible - the beautiful practice of self...
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From Tease to Please: Best Foreplay Ideas For Men

Foreplay is an incredibly important part of seduction. It has wonderful benefits on all levels - emotional, psychological and physical. It helps our minds...