Dating Coaches
Looking for a Dating Coach near you?
Select any coach profile to explore if they are a good personal fit for you, then contact them to set up an introductory meeting. Most of the below Dating Coaches see clients via Zoom or other video communication services, as well as in person.
Dating Coaches
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When Should You Hire a Dating Coach?
The cultural narrative says that a dating coach is only useful to people who want advice on building long-lasting love or relationships with one person of the other sex. Yet most coaches actually work with a broad spectrum of people who are looking for different kinds of outcomes.
For example, you should hire a coach if you:
- Are dating across the gender and sexual orientation spectrums
- Know or suspect that monogamy is not for you
- Aren’t sure what you want out of dating long-term, and dating right now is partly about figuring that out
- Know that you want a committed relationship or relationships at some point, just not now, and you want to have some fun in the meantime
- Are in the process of exploring your sexuality, and dating is a part of that
- Are sexually inexperienced, but want to overcome shyness and fear around intimacy
Ultimately though, date coaching is for anyone who wants support, guidance, and mentoring around how they approach and show up in the courtship realm.
How to Find a Dating Coach
It seems that these days, social media is flush with people who proclaim themselves as dating coaches.
But to find someone who not only fits, but also has plenty of experience and the proper tools to help you achieve your dating goals, consider hiring a highly-trained practitioner like a Somatica Coach (all the coaches in our directory have been through the Somatica Training).
How Much Does a Dating Coach Cost?
In terms of fees, it’s important to be aware of the differences between dating coaches and matchmaking services.
Matchmaking services often charge outrageous fees (up to $50,000 a year) and often don’t deliver for their clients. In comparison, a dating coach will charge a similar fee to a sex coach, sexologist or therapist in your area. The cost can however vary greatly, depending on your location.
Beware of coaching practices that charge huge sums for classes or workshops – and really only teach you a bunch of gimmicks or “tricks”. It’s better to find someone personable, affordable and down to earth who can personalize their sessions to your individual goals.