Sho-Sho

As a Chinese-American Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist and sex + relationship coach, Sho-Sho offers transformative coaching that centers on BIPOC men, women, couples, and poly/non-monogamous folks.

She specializes in helping men and compassionately unravels ideas around masculinity and erectile performance, and guides them in understanding women and seduction. Sho-Sho supports Asian-American men and men of color in healing their racial identity around sexuality and masculinity.

Her program, Lust for Life™, takes women on personal journeys through self-care, relationship grief, and sexual freedom. Within this safe space, women of color find themselves restored, adored, and able to find their glow again.

Sho-Sho also helps multiracial couples with sexual exploration and expansion. This includes opening up monogamous relationships to polyamory, role-play and fantasy, kink, and BDSM, while teaching you to navigate two central skills that underpin them all: boundaries and negotiation.

Sho-Sho’s approach combines pleasure-based sex and relationship coaching, the pattern-breaking parts work of Internal Family Systems therapy, and a decolonizing framework of racial identity and power structures. Clients often see transformation from the very first session.

She is also a writer, mother, founder, and former-Fortune 500 corporate dropout. She trained with Somatica after her husband of 20 years died of cancer. No stranger to grief, she launched her coaching practice to help others go from barely surviving to truly thriving.

Sho-Sho sees individuals and couples online and in-person in Berkeley, Oakland and the East Bay. Please inquire for details, cost and your free consultation.