Ilil

ILIL is a certified sex, intimacy and relationship coach based in Nelson, New Zealand. Her passion is to help clients reach their full potential for pleasure, connection, and love.

Ilil started her journey of erotic empowerment through her own life experiences. She knows what it means to live with debilitating wounds around intimacy and sexuality. She knows what it takes to rise from wounding towards radical self love, and open up to the love of others.

Her goal is helping clients help themselves. She believes that each person holds the inner knowing of what’s best for them. She guides clients to a closer relationship with their intuition, and teaches them the essential insight and tools for creating the life that is the most authentic, pleasurable, and fulfilling to them.

In her sessions, she creates a judgement-free, empathetic, and de-shamifying space that celebrates every type of person. Her joyful personality naturally encourages playfulness and humor, and creates an warm space to engage in.

Ilil is a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach, a Certified Sexologist by the American Board of Sexology, and a youth sex educator accredited by the Israeli board of kids and youth sex education. She is currently training as a sexological bodyworker with the Institute of Somatic Sexology.

Bringing a unique, holistic approach to her practice, Ilil is influenced by many different techniques –  including mindfulness, emotional freedom technique (EFT), dance and movement modalities, and sacred sexuality.

Ilil works with individuals and couples of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship structures. She offers sessions internationally via zoom, and in-person in Nelson, New Zealand.